This time of year, all we hear and read are:
- New Year, New Me
- Leave the past behind
- New beginning
- This was a tough year, may the new one be kinder …
Then we repeat these exact same thoughts the next year. Sounds familiar?
To set out a future goal, it has to begin with you. If you don’t understand WHO you are, WHAT you want and what you are DOING to get it, your New Year Resolutions, will always be forever re-written on the 1st January.
Forget about leaving the past, starting a new year, writing a new beginning. Stop thinking in terms of New Year, New Me.
The future is what you’ll make it to be, so instead of making resolutions which will fizzle away after a few weeks, make this a Happy New Now and do not attempt to change yourself. You are who you are. Stop wanting to be someone else, but instead, change what is within your control to evolve into the person that can get more of what you want in the future.
When you understand who are you are, you set yourself on an evolving journey in which your past becomes a reference to your learnings and your future plans serve to adjust your sails to keep you on track of your destination.
So, instead, focus on a New Now and Evolving Me!
We can’t control the future, but we can influence the present to get more of what we want in the future.
You cannot leave a job for a better job. You leave a job because you are not happy, or no longer happy, with this job.
You cannot leave a relationship for a better relationship. You leave a relationship because you are not happy, or no longer happy, with this relationship.
You cannot leave a country for a better country. You leave a country because you are not happy, or no longer happy, with this country.
The primary cause for unhappiness is never the situation, but our thoughts about it. We must become aware of the thoughts we are thinking.
The more you give anything else the power over your happiness, the more you will keep repeating, every year, to leave your past behind and hope for a better new year.
Do what you have to do now, with what you’ve learned from yesterday for a better tomorrow and with the understanding that your happiness is your responsibility, no one else’s.
To understand this better, I have designed a method called MY BLUEPRINT.
This Blueprint is an explanation of human behaviour and how to effect change. It will assist you in understanding who you are, what motivates you and what habits you have created to get what you want.
You do not have to reinvent yourself to better yourself. You just need to understand your Blueprint and correct what is necessary to achieve your plans efficiently and responsibly.
My offer for January 2020 is 10% discount on a Blueprint Initial Consultation.
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